Personally, I would block him. His texts to you are awfully forward. That’s a big red flag. Block him!! If you question whether you should or not, I would caution, you shouldn't respond to him. His words do not sound like godly interaction at all to me. It should raise red flags all over. Especially his, "3rd message: I really want to meet you as soon as possible, call me at…" Why!? What's the rush - out of the blue! With your kind of work Heidi, it's important I believe, especially with men, to totally separate work from pleasure. Draw a line and close doors to them right away when they approach, at any attempts by them to go beyond the work place and business with you. With this guy and the previous one with off color talk, to me it suggests the enemy may be attempting to entrap you with, or attach these kind of men to you. A spiritual trap for not good reasons. You may want to pray that the Lord would close all doors to unsavory men and their suggestive invitations. But you are the one who needs to close the door to them. Only you can choose whether to keep your home and social life totally separate from your work and home. So this "missionary" isn't involved from your work place, but still has come out of nowhere from years past, and is sounding overly friendly and familiar with you, without taking proper time to catch up, or to communicate without pressuring you to meet him! Suddenly, all of a sudden, "you can come over" to his place!! And why doesn't he have a car! Please think about this from the spiritual aspect, and the possibility that the enemy is trying to drag ungodly men in to your life for wrong purposes. Consider closing those doors to all men who come from nowhere, who are suggestive, who pressure you, rush you, and whose walk with the Lord is either non-existant, or weak. Avoid those who exhibit any questionable intentions, and who make you uncomfortable with no Peace from the Lord. Ask and trust the Lord to bring only God fearing, God-loving, God serving people alongside you in your personal life and social life. Not to be afraid - but to be alert and wise in these last days. I totally agree with Kolleen! If this guy cared about YOU then he would take his time, not rush you! That is a very bad sign! And don’t be fooled by his “Christian” disguise. Wolves come in sheep’s clothing. Exactly! :prayer-hands: Thank you so much Yohanan and Kolleen. I love your wisdom and good advice. I will pray as you suggested Kolleen. Unfortunately, several men approached me the last 3 or 4 years and all turned out to be wolf in sheep's clothing. It was very emotionally draining for me, thinking they might be real Christians, then red flags...............it caused me more mental strain when I did not need any more. I will take time for some serious prayer about this. thank you
